Well, I am sad to say that Cohen appears to be allergic to milk. I waited quite a while to try milk based formula with Cohen hoping I could avoid what happened with Kent.
I tried formula with Kent when he was three months old. He sucked it down without protest; Kent was quite an eater. It was his night time bottle and he went to sleep normally. He woke up a few hours later with splotches all over his body, crying and writhing all over trying to scratch everywhere. I thought it was just a terrible eczema flare up, but it was probably hives. I held him in the living room all night so he couldn't scratch himself to bleeding anymore. He was fine in the morning, but didn't have milk again until I absentmindedly gave him some baby food at six months with milk and wheat and eggs- the first time he went into anaphylaxis. He has not had ANY cow milk since...no cheese, butter, ice cream or yogurt. Thank goodness for soy! The doctor thinks he will outgrow this one allergy by the end of this year. Update coming in November!
I waited with Cohen until he was seven months old. He had milk based formula five times with no reaction, so I thought he was fine. Sunday night, at our small group social (right after the pictures with Annie below), he had six ounces of formula and everything seemed normal. Three hours later, after we were home, he began throwing up and continued to throw up nine times. When his stomach was empty, he was fine. I dismissed it as some kind of stomach bug. Thursday afternoon, my mom gave Cohen two ounces of formula to fill out a bottle of breast milk. Again, three hours later Cohen started throwing up; this time only eight times. I called the doctor and they said what I thought; it sounded like Cohen was allergic to milk and we should try soy.
Cohen finally took his first full bottle of soy formula yesterday at church, so I don't think he is allergic to soy-thankfully! We'll have to try a few more times before I'm sure. Of course with all my allergy research, Cohen may not have a true allergy to milk. Digestive issues always point to more of an intolerance, which in my opinion is much better- not life threatening! We'll have to wait for the allergy testing in the future. I think I will move forward with my plan of trying wheat cereal next week. You'll have to bear with me; I think I will be nervous every time I try anything with Cohen that Kent is allergic to. I absolutely know how ridiculous it is to think they would have the same allergies. They are completely different people. Just so you know, if you have allergies, your children have a 50% chance of developing allergies. What allergies they will have, however, is unique to their own genetic makeup.
I write all of this to document this journey for myself. God was preparing me even while I was pregnant with Kent. I read so much about peanut allergies; that one allergy seemed like the end of the world. Now, I look back and laugh, not because of how hard it actually is, because it is really not hard at all. I laugh because I know that I am truly, truly blessed! Allergies are nothing compared to the struggles I have seen some of my family, friends and students go through with other various physical, emotional and mental disabilities. I thank the Lord everyday for his blessings and my smiling, perfectly happy boys. I have two very healthy, strong boys who have never been on antibiotics, never had an ear infection, and are rarely sick. I keep reminding myself of what my friend Wendy told me at church, "cow milk is for baby cows".
Who needs ice cream anyway!?!